Posts by Calico Ethel

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Re: My 9/11 threads ... a study in NLP ... enjoy!

by What-A-Coincidence in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nohk8qk-ajw.

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Calico Ethel

WAC (KO)

You ask how old Shamus is...but I want to know how old you are, you must be at least 2 by now???? It must be nap time for you soon, so I'll make this short.

Are you seriously asking people to call up the Pentagon to ask for a release of tapes? I think the conversation would go something like this:

Me - "Uh hello Pentagon, this is nobody you know, but I would like you to release any info you have on 9/11 asap! That would be greaaat! Thaaaanks!"

Pentagon - "what's your name and address?"

Me - "It's blah blah blah"

Pentagon - "thanks, we'll be in touch" (CLICK)

Go right ahead and try it yourself though. I'd be interested to know how that goes!

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Re: My 9/11 threads ... a study in NLP ... enjoy!

by What-A-Coincidence in

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nohk8qk-ajw.

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Calico Ethel

W.A.C.

you called that a documentary??? I just thought it was a load of b*ll*cks.

I tend to think people don't answer direct questions when they don't know what the h?ll they are talking about, and I think you are talking out of your a$$ here.

Caedes...is that best you have? You should stop while u are ahead ... you have not presented a rebuttal to the TOPIC of the thread. I will wait.

WHAT??? I think you're confused, because it seems that YOU haven't presented a rebuttal to anything Caedes asks YOU, not the other way around!

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My Marriage just ended I feel so sick and stressed please help me. Serious.

by Witness 007 in

my wife and i split from the witnesses about 2 years now....and now she says we need a divorce asap!

she doesn't want to work thru it.

lately and for awhile she has been amazingly aggressive to me.....and pretty much everyone else she knows.

My thought is that if you know it's not working out, which is what you said, then you shouldn't want to stay in the marriage. And it sounds like she's unwilling to get councelling, so there's no point in talking about what is wrong with marriage, and so you just focus on it ending so you can move on. I know it may sound harsh, but after seeing what it did to me staying in an unloving marriage for 9 years is that I was SO much better off for it ending. I'm such a different person now...In a good way!

So take the advice of those that have said to get it over with and move on. I know you are upset by it, but you need to deal with it because it doesn't sound like there is any chance for her wanting to stay, and even if she did, you don't want to go through more crap longer do you?

It took me forever to figure out that I didn't want to put up with all the stuff my ex put me through, and then he gave finally gave me the reason to end it, so I did. And I feel relieved that I ended it and said no to him hurting me anymore.

Besides, you might want to be with someone else in the future, and you may find someone that is better for you.

I found someone who treats me just like I should be treated, like I matter, like I'm important to him, and I feel very priveledged that I have been given that chance to find true love, because what I had before wasn't love at all!

I felt at first that it would be difficult, but I got through it and the day of the divorce was one of the best days of my life. The next day I woke up and felt completely new and I like me a lot more now.

Lots of luck to you.

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Certain Expressions That Are Silly

by minimus in

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what expressions get you going?.

i like "it's all good!!!

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Calico Ethel

Caedes answers my stupid questions with the blatantly obvious in a sarky way (I love it though, really)

And then I say "oh no you di'nt" (hee hee) Just cause I know he loves it

Mrs. Caedes

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Am i being too harsh with my girlfriend?

by digderidoo in

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ok heres the scenario.. i met this girl about 12 months ago, we dated for around 6 months then split up (another story).

we have started seeing each other again for around 3 months now.. the problem is, if i can call it a problem, she has two kids, whereas i have three that i see on thursdays and saturdays.

her ex has her kids every other saturday.

Calico Ethel

I think what others have said so far is good, like you saying you aren't sure what you want from it? You don't seem into the relationship really. I lived in the US whilst my man was in the UK and we talked to each other almost every day, on the phone of course. That doesn't make up for time to be together, but since we couldn't, geographically speaking, it was important to spend as much time talking as possible, whether it was calling, texting or emailing.

If you are into the relationship and you want to see about taking it further, then maybe look into getting someone to sit for you, with the kids (I don't know how old they are) or let them go to friends' homes or something. That way you can plan some alone time with your girlfriend and your kids are getting time to spend with friends too? But also, you said you weren't willing to give up time with your kids to be with her, so then that doesn't seem to me that your very commited, because I think sometimes people have to give up something every now and then to be with someone they care about. As an example, I don't look at what I did as giving anything up, but gaining something very precious. I now have a wonderful husband and some really great friends and family in the UK. I may have left the friends and family behind in the US, but I gained so much more, so it didn't matter. If you really care about her, and she about you, then what you see as "giving up" (ie..spending time with your kids) won't actually be giving something up, you would be gaining something, a relationship with someone you care about. And besides, if you did put aside spending a little time with your kids every now and then (I'm not saying every time you have them), but then you can forge a deeper relationship with her and bring the kids into it, then you won't have to give up time for your kids or her if you see what I mean? I definately think that a heartfelt talk between you both is the route to start out on.

Hope that makes sense. And hope it all works out.

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My neice died this morning

by MsMcDucket in

my neice who had cancer died at 3:00 a.m. my sister just called and told me.

i'll put up the obituiaries when it's posted.

no need for responses.

Calico Ethel

Really the only thing one can say is sorry and to let you know that we're thinking of you in your time of need. I think everyone has lost someone and it gives such comfort knowing that we aren't alone in the grieving period.

hugs to you

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I'm feeling left out

by Calico Ethel in

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hello all.

i just wanted to start a thread because i haven't in a really long time.

i was feeling left out .

Calico Ethel

I like it LouBelle I'll have to think of a sentance I can use it in. then when I want to sound smart I can use that...although it would sound weird if I used it all the time, so I need more new words to help me sound smarter more often....keep em' coming everyone

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I'm feeling left out

by Calico Ethel in

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hello all.

i just wanted to start a thread because i haven't in a really long time.

i was feeling left out .

Calico Ethel

DJK - I may have a look into that. I was thinking something along the lines of biology of some sort, something that might have to do with plants or animals. I would love to work with nature or do something that helps the environment.

I can only go to school part time, so maybe only one or two nights a week at the most probably.

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I'm feeling left out

by Calico Ethel in

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hello all.

i just wanted to start a thread because i haven't in a really long time.

i was feeling left out .

Calico Ethel

Thanks CoCo for your words...I like using the word of the day thing online. I used to have it set up on my igoogle page. I wanted to learn one new word a day, but it kept giving words I already knew.

ChickPea...my husband Caedes and I reside in wonderful Devon, that's the South West part of the country. Very beautiful. We are only about 5 minutes walking distance to the English Channel, which is wonderful! I'm sick of the public transportation, but that's only because when you're standing outside when it's cold and rainy for over 30 minutes waiting for a bus that's supposed to come every 15 minutes and then 3 turn up all at the same time, you get a little irritated Otherwise, I think it is good too. And the train is fun to ride on. The taxi drivers are sometimes funny, they pretty much all talk about rugby

Don't know Crumpet Wing Commander, but I hope he/she shows up again for you

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Post something Crazy

by JH in

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfdoi24rrae.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnzr7mqyhak.

Calico Ethel

MsMcDucket ~

I don't know if it was just my congregation, but the men that did the baptism's were always fat or really ugly....why didn't they have the good looking ones doing the baptism? Did they think the girls would enjoy being touched by a good looking man or that the homosexual boys would enjoy it also? Things to ponder...